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My deepest condolences to the Schroeter family and everyone who knew and loved my Great Aunt Joyce. There are some people who are just so full of life, who can just make you smile by merely walking into the room. That was Aunt Joyce. Christine and I were so thrilled that she traveled down to our 2013 wedding in New York City with Ed and Suzi. As you can see in the picture below, she had me in stitches with her keen sense of humor that was perfect for the occasion. We were honored that she could be part of the traditional Chinese tea ceremony before the wedding for our families' beloved elders, which she indeed was.
I have also appreciated the chance to learn more about her history as a pathbreaking educator from the history that Ed shared. Though I didn't know those details, it doesn't surprise me a bit! What a life she led. A real cause for celebration.
We love you Aunt Joyce!
~Jeremy Sawyer, Christine Wong, and Annika Wong Sawyer
Joyce (Edith) Schroeter (nee Asling) was a generous, loving and energetic wife, mother, grandmother and great-grandmother, with a solution-oriented attitude. Always independent-minded, she was thoroughly modern with great faith in education, science, modern medicine and government social programs.
Born on July 26, 1922 in Toronto, she was the second and youngest daughter of English immigrants, Arthur and Gladys Letitia Asling (nee Coles). She grew up on Benlamond Avenue in Scarborough. Her mother died of “consumption” on December 27, 1928 when she was only six and half years old. Her father, Arthur Kirkham Asling, was a cavalry officer who fought in the Boer War.
During the Great Depression of the 1930s her father was often away working or looking for business opportunities, so she raised herself with the help of her sister, Beatrice Sawyer, seven years older, the family’s housekeeper, and some of her neighbors. She attended Malvern Collegiate Institute, put herself through Normal School (teacher’s college) graduating in 1942 and distinguished herself as a caring, dedicated, and effective educator. She and childhood friend since kindergarten, Mary Stamps, were hired by the Toronto School Board as two of its first kindergarten teachers.
Joyce loved music and dancing. During the Second World War she met her future husband, Arthur Richard (Dick) Schroeter at a folk arts society. Dick, a German immigrant who came to Canada in 1929, played the violin and loved to dance as much as Joyce. They joined a Danish folk dance group and the youth hosteling association in Toronto and spent their free time dancing, cycling, camping and cross-country skiing.
They married in 1945 and moved to the former Village of Markham where they raised 3 children. Her husband had a custom carpentry business. She taught primary grades at Franklin Street and James Robinson schools over 4 decades, retiring in 1983 from the York Region District School Board. She will be fondly remembered by many of the "Baby Boomers" who grew up in the area.
Joyce and her husband were longtime square and folk dancers and members of the Ontario Folk Dance Association. When she and her husband Dick retired, they were members of five folk and square dance groups. They danced and travelled together once or twice annually with a square dance travel group to places such as the Galapagos Islands and Vietnam. When Dick died in 2000, Joyce continued to travel and dance until she moved to Peterborough in late 2017 to Rubidge Retirement Residence.
In her immediate family she is survived by her children, Stephen Richard Schroeter (Edmonton, AB.), Janet Elizabeth Schroeter (Prince Albert, SK.), and Edward Arthur Schroeter (Peterborough, ON.), four grandchildren: Michael Schroeter, Leslie (Schroeter) Tarulli, Deanna (Schroeter) Sansom, Danielle (Schroeter) Sansom, and four great grandchildren: Andrea Schroeter, Adam Schroeter, Ella Tarulli, and Luca Tarulli.
To the entire Schroeter family and beyond...
What a loss of my dear Aunt Joyce. So many great memories from my childhood to senior status! Some include trips to Markham for various holidays, visits to Grandpa Asling's cottage in Scarborough and, of course, the wonderful time spent at the cottages on Deep Bay (some before electricity was there). A more recent highlight was the time we were able to spend at Jeremy and Christine's wedding, along with the other family and friends in attendance.
We were always greeted with her infectious smile and good humor, no matter the situation. Her kind heart will always be remembered, and she leaves behind so many loving family members and friends. I love you Aunt Joyce, and you will remain on my heart forever.
The picture was from our last visit to her condo.
Theodore Asling Sawyer (Ted) & Gail
I have many wonderful memories of my Great Aunt Joyce from all of the times we spent with her at the cottages in Parry Sound. She had a great sense of adventure and was always full energy and love. I will never forget her distinctive laughter and the way she always brightened my day. I love you Aunt Joyce and may you rest in eternal peace.
Justin Sawyer
Dear Steve, Diana, Janet, Ed and Suzi,
I want to express my person sympathy to you all in the loss of your mother. Although your mother was an Aunt by marriage to me she always made me feel so special when she referred to as “her niece”. I will always remember her as even more than a very special Aunt.
I wanted to share the first pic I took on my iPhone (my first picture taking phone),
and I have always kept it there. Taken in Unionville June 27, 2015.
Your Mom was such a special lady. And so very special to our whole family. We were so fortunate to spend as much time with her as we could. We are going to miss her so very much .
Sending much love to you all,
Carolann (Sawyer).
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