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Judy Bartlett posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 5, 2018
Barb,
I was very sad to hear this news of your dad passing. We share longevity in our families Barb-aren't we lucky to have our parents for as long as we do. I'm sorry that I cannot be there , but my thoughts have been with you and your family since I heard and with you today.
Judy Bartlett
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Celia & Steve Morgan posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 4, 2018
Kim and family,
Remember all the good times you had with your dad (husband/grandfather/great grandfather) and that those we love don't go away, they walk beside us every day, unseen, unheard but always near, so loved, so missed, so very dear.
Our condolences to you and your family.
Celia & Steve
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Edna Janes posted a condolence
Saturday, September 1, 2018
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family today.
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Cindy Pratt lit a candle
Saturday, September 1, 2018
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My heart goes out to you all at this incredibly sad time, he was a very sweet man who lived a very rewarding and full life with a loving family!
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Toronto Sun Obituary Published Saturday September 1, 2018 posted a condolence
Saturday, September 1, 2018
Toronto Sun Obituary – The family gratefully thanks Trudy Egan and Liz Braun for their support in putting together the tribute to Howard.
HAYES, NORMAN HOWARD - Toronto Sun Day-oner.
Howard passed away on August 28, 2018. Loving husband of Effie (Clarry) for sixty-nine years
And cherished father of Kimberley Swigger (Steve), Barbara Pratt (Dave) and Anne Hofland (Darren). He was adored by his grandchildren Alexandra (Luke), Kellan, Melissa (Larry), Stephanie (James), Renee and April. Also loving grandfather to Andy, Mike (Dominique),
Julie (Jeremy) and great grandfather to Katie, Lola, Hayden, Sophie and Charlotte.
Howard began his career in the newspaper business at the Toronto Telegram at the age of 16. In 1941 he joined the RCAF as an electrician on the Lancaster Bomber. Following the war he returned to his newspaper roots at the Telegram where he was part
of the team that put out the final edition. He joined the fledgling Toronto Sun as Business Manager and was one of the proud Day-Oners who published the first edition on November 1, 1971. He had a successful career at the Sun and happily retired in 1987. Howard loved his Sun family as much as his Tely family and forged many lifelong friendships.
Howard and Effie married in 1949 and built their dream home in Agincourt where they raised their three daughters. Their home became the location of countless family and friend gatherings which often included his friends from the Tely and the Sun.
Dad’s favourite time of year was Christmas. His Christmas lights were the pride of the neighbourhood. Family Christmas festivities were always special and included the music of John McDermott, Perry Como, Anne Murray and a wide range of artists. His gift wrapping would give Martha Stewart serious competition. Dad was a great organizer and his handwriting was top notch. He was also a good listener and his door was always open to those who needed advice and support.
Following retirement, Dad and Mom spent time travelling but their greatest joy came from time spent with their children and grandchildren. Howard loved animals and the house was often home to birds, cats, mice, hamsters, dogs and even a rat! Summer evenings would find Howard by the pool in his backyard oasis, cold beverage in hand while listening to his favourite music. This was his idea of ‘peace on earth’ and he never asked for more.
Hours were also spent at his work bench where he became an expert ‘fixer’. The fireworks he planned each year for Victoria Day were spectacular. He also loved putting on his ‘dinner clothes’ every quarter and taking the family out to a fancy restaurant. Birthdays and special occasions would be celebrated and then all would return home to indulge in one of Effie’s incredible birthday cakes.
Howard never missed a chance to tell his family how much he loved them and always asked for a ‘safe arrival’ call when they arrived home. He ended every phone call with “Good night. Sweet dreams. I love you”. Words his family hold close to their hearts and will long continue to do so.
Please join us to celebrate our husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather and most of all - friend, on Tuesday, September 4, 2018 from 2-4 and 6-8 pm at The Dixon-Garland Funeral Home,166 Main Street North, Markham. A church service will be held on Wednesday, September 5, 2018 at 11 am at Locust Hill United Church, 7668 Highway 7 East. Interment in Locust Hill United Church cemetery.
The family thanks the special staff of K3E for their care and kindness. In lieu of flowers, a donation to the Sunnybrook Veterans’ Comfort Fund would be appreciated. For further details, please refer to dixongarland.com.
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THE TORONTO SUN SAYS FAREWELL posted a condolence
Saturday, September 1, 2018
Howard Hayes, a loyal Toronto Sun Day One-er, has died at 96.
A career newspaper staffer, Hayes was a husband, father, grandfather and veteran who got his start at 16 as an office boy at the Toronto Telegram.
When the Toronto Sun rose from the ashes of the Tely in 1971, he took a position as the Business Office Manager.
Hayes was one of the loyal 62 employees that got this newspaper started.
Hayes was born in Toronto, one of five kids in the family, and grew up on Carlaw Ave. He lived in the city his whole life.
The war broke out not long after he began working at the Telegram and at 19 Hayes joined the Air Force, returning to civilian life and the Telegram in 1945.
At the Telegram, Hayes met the love of his life, a young woman named Effie Clarry who worked in the Circulation Department. They were married in 1949 and began a wonderful marriage and true partnership that lasted just shy of 70 years — bringing them three daughters, nine grandchildren and five great-grandchildren.
Hayes seems to have embodied the very best of what Tom Brokaw dubbed “The Greatest Generation.”
Like others whose character was forged by the Depression and the war, Hayes was resourceful and hard-working, loyal to a fault and devoted to his family. He was an immensely capable man and fully engaged in life.
Loyalty played a large part in working life for all the Day One-ers at the Sun. Howard and Effie made lifelong friends at the Tely and the Sun, and there wasn’t much separation between their personal and professional lives — workmates were often at the house for barbecues and parties.
Hayes retired in 1987, but the Sun retained a special place in his heart. Generous with his own time and money, he always appreciated the open-handed culture at the little paper that grew, and the way in which the founders of the Sun ensured their staff was treated like family.
In its early days, the Toronto Sun was a bit of a circus — a ragtag collection of visionaries, wiseguys and scribes. Behind the scenes, Hayes held the business office together so the creatives could do their thing.
On the day an escape artist named the Amazing Randi decided to show the city editor how he could escape from a safe while handcuffed — a perfect Sun story! — Hayes came by to watch with everyone else.
When the stunt almost turned deadly, and the Amazing Randi proved to be not so amazing at getting out of the locked safe, it was Hayes who had the combination and saved the day.
There had been 10 minutes worth of oxygen in the safe. With but 25 seconds left, Hayes got the lock to open. Just another day on the job.
Howard Hayes, a Day Oner with the Toronto Sun, poses with his commemorative front page upon his retirement.
Former Editor John Downing said, “I remember Howard with pleasure as a gentle man and a gentleman. He was one of the loyal soldiers every company needs to survive, and in the Sun’s case, to prosper.”
Former colleagues describe Hayes as a great boss and a great friend, and a man who earned their respect. As Billing Manager Steve Drury put it, “He was, quite simply, a good man. The world needs more like him.”
In the early days of the Sun, Trudy Eagan (the Sun Chain’s Executive Vice President, CAO and Member, Board of Directors) said Hayes’ wife and daughters often worked in the office with him on the weekend — the kids opening mail and filing papers to help their dad.
“I remember Howard with great fondness and think of him as an integral part of the engine that kept the Sun smoothly rolling along,” said Eagan. “In an often loud, boisterous environment both within the Sun from staff and without from advertisers demanding immediate attention, Howard remained calm, cool and collected, pristine white shirt and tie perfectly knotted.”
“He always gave me the feeling that all was under control,” she said.
Visitation will be held Sept. 4, from 2 to 4 p.m. and 6 to 8 p.m., at the Dixon-Garland Funeral Home, located at 166 Main St. N. in Markham.
A church service will be held at 11 a.m. on Sept. 5 at Locust Hill United Church, located at 7668 Hwy. 7 E.
In lieu of flowers, a donation to the Sunnybrook Veterans’ Comfort Fund would be appreciated. Details at dixongarland.com
lbraun@postmedia.com
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Barb's Poem 2008 posted a condolence
Friday, August 31, 2018
Today is a party for this man Howard Hayes,
He’s been on this earth thirty-one thousand, three hundred and ninety days.
Born August 3, nineteen twenty-two,
He was a city boy with lots to do.
With two sister and brothers and a dog named spot,
You ate tar from the sidewalks when it got really hot.
And on weekends during the hot summertime,
You went up to the cottage to enjoy the sunshine.
Time went by quite quickly and you started working,
But without your own car, hitchhiking was lurking.
The next thing you knew you were working on planes,
It was electrical work, but you wanted a change.
So off to The Tely you went for a job,
You were dressed quite sharply……never a slob.
So handsome you were that all the girls smiled,
But one in particular, drove you wild.
Her name was Effie and she was a beauty,
You fell madly in love with such a cutie.
Proposals were made and Effie said “yes”,
So gorgeous she was in her wedding dress.
And after a few years of great wedded bliss,
A baby arrived, she was just what you wished.
But Kim needed a playmate to fill her spare time,
So along came Barb and Anne in very good time.
Your new family you raised with so much pride,
And a good dad you were because you never lied.
A beautiful home you and mom made,
But the Tely was in trouble, you’d no longer get paid.
A new paper was formed called The Toronto Sun,
You brought good news home to our worried mom.
You had a new job and would stay many years.
And when you retired there were a few tears.
Retirement sure did agree with you Dad,
You always kept busy, and never were sad.
The house it was full of laughter and fun,
Five granddaughters arrived and one grandson.
We did lots of things and went on little trips,
But no life if perfect we’ve had a few blips.
And now as you’re here with family and friends,
Best wishes, and love is what this poem sends!!
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Ron & Sandra Stevens posted a condolence
Friday, August 31, 2018
On behalf of our family, we would like to express our sincere condolences, to Effie & her family. Howard was a very special uncle to me, he was the rock of the Hayes family, always there in times of need, looking after all of the family's issues. He gave me wondefull advice and support. I often remember wonderfull family times at Effie's & Howard's home. He was a wonderfull, husband, father & grandfather.
I will remember him always.
Ron, Sandra, Ken & Lisa, Kevin & Chanh ,Mom Stevens
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